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Thursday 7 January 2016

Loving as we should: The future of the Anglican Communion

Leaders of the Anglican Communion will meet next week for five more days of intense discussion about its future. I say more, because this is not the first of such meetings, and previous ones have seldom produced much in the way of genuine reconciliation. This being said, the next meeting will, as in the past, achieve good things in other areas to be covered in its agenda. Items are likely to include the problem of religious violence and the ever growing problem of violence against women and children (the two often belong together), the environment, and yet another attempt to arrive at a shared ethos concerning human sexuality, along with a corresponding re-configuration of the Communion's structural life.

It would be easy to think of this meeting as being about the things which matter, as well as those that matter less. But what you think matters, and what you think matters less, will depend to some extent on who you are and where you stand in relation to other Anglicans. If you are a traditionalist, what really matters is that the Bible’s teaching on sexuality be respected and fully adhered to. If you are a liberal, you will be aware of how conditioned we are by our specific cultures (what is called contextuality), that the bible is a library and not a book and that its various books had a particular editorial bias. You will want compassion and the hospitality of mercy to prevail.

Both of these broadly delineated parties will know that while whatever is resolved in relation to the other issues on the meeting’s agenda (the things which seem to matter less) may lead to good things happening in the medium term future.  But they will also know, if they are honest about it, that the example the Communion is setting in terms of its own relations and, specifically, how it treats its gay and transgendered people, diminishes its credibility in many of these other vitally important areas.

The problem of how to heal the Communion’s divisions is not, as many think, one of unity for the sake of unity. It is much more subtle than that, and much harder to resolve. Papering over differences has been proved to be a waste of time. It doesn’t work, because arriving at functional unity, whatever form that takes is not going to make us love each other as we should.

Furthermore, most people, if they have heard of the Anglican Communion at all, do not in the least care about how it orders its life structurally.  They care, if they care at all, about the kind of leadership which the world needs to see coming from the Church, a leadership which is always subject to the commandments to love mercy and justice and to walk humbly with God. This kind of leadership brings about a very different kind of unity. We might, incidentally, benefit from seeing more of it in the context of the debate over the UK’s membership of the European Union. The nation waits for its Church to set the example.

So what might be a possible way forward? Archbishop Justin Welby hopes and prays for wisdom and that the Communion will learn, in its separate camps, ‘to love each other as we should’. Loving each other is not simply a matter of settling differences, as the Archbishop rightly points out. It is a matter of transcending difference. We do this by confronting the fear which for more than two decades has dominated the Communion’s internal relationships, stunted its spiritual life and diminished its credibility in the world to the point of near non-existence.

There is only one way to overcome this deeply destructive fear and that is to look fear in the eye by ‘becoming’ the person, or group one fears most. So the liberal looks the traditionalist in the eye and experiences at the deepest level of their being what it feels like to be that person, shaped within a specific context and faced with me, a liberal. The same is true in reverse; the traditionalist makes himself vulnerable (most of those present will be men, hence the masculine pronoun) from the place where trust can inhabit the human heart. Both parties are prepared, for the sake of Christ who loves us all, to ‘hurt’ there, to lose face, or even to feel that he has betrayed his Church. These feelings will not last long because the activity of grace works at an astonishing speed.


Voltaire wrote that ‘God is a circle whose centre is everywhere and whose circumference is nowhere’. The Church is called to be like God. 

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