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‘There is no fear in love’ ( 1 John 4:18). If I’m
honest about it, these words strike me as optimistic, even somewhat whimsical.
Most people’s life experience has demonstrated at one time or another that fear
takes absolute precedence when it comes to violent defining moments, or ‘crises’,
in the full sense of the word. When it comes to how we imagine we would behave
in a violent crisis intentions are invariably good, even heroic, but reality, when
it kicks in, often reveals us to be anything but heroes. Not that this is always
a bad thing. The independent hero can be counterproductive in times of crisis. He
or she can put the lives of others in danger. On the night people were randomly stabbed in a
London restaurant, the u-tube footage shows police telling them to lie down and
not run, or even move. They were not to be heros. If there was to be heroism,
it would be a matter of holding together, and of having the courage to trust
the police who were trying to contain the fear.
The lying down, and what must have been an agonised period
of waiting for the ‘all clear’, suggests that fear can only be confronted, and
then contained, through trust in what it means to be real community. Real
community is about being in ‘communion’ with one another. In a moment of violent
crisis, being in communion begins with trusting those who give the orders which will enable all innocent
people to live. It is about everyone belonging to one another, so that whoever
holds legitimate authority in any given situation is also fully in communion
with the rest of us. In the wider
context of our shared public life, this is only possible when there is wise and
competent leadership, wisdom being a combination of vision, compassion and
common sense. Such leadership is vital in times of mass violence.
The present mayor of London, a wise and
compassionate leader, has told people to expect an unusual amount of police presence
and high level security in the wake of recent terrorist attacks. He has
also told them not to be afraid, not because he wishes to delude them into
thinking that these are not frightening times, but because he wishes them to
know that their fear is valid and that he will do everything he can to protect
them under his mayoral leadership. This is why Trump’s remarks about Sadiq Khan
are both crass and dangerous.
A few nights ago, we saw another example of wise and
compassionate leadership, this time coming from a twenty three year old woman
and her co-celebrants at a rock concert. She was affirming communion, so you
could say that her initiative to re-stage the concert so soon after the terror
attack which took place at the last one was not only courageous in a human
sense, but had something of the self-giving of Christ, and something of his innocence.
His innocence was reflected not only in her, but in the faces of those attending the concert, as
they faced down the violence that had been, and might yet be.
No doubt most of the young people attending the second
Ariana Grande concert had been at the first one, with its tragic and terrifying
outcome.
What brought them together a second time? I believe it was the
collective will to be 'as communion', so defying those who would fragment and
ultimately destroy what is good about our society and our way of life. This is
what made this concert so unlike any other concert. There was an exhortation to
love one another in the facing down of fear.
All would be remembering the horrors of the previous
celebration. Many of those attending this one were probably there when they
took place. All would have felt the fear. Some would not have known what to do
with the feelings these memories evoke, especially in their immediate
aftermath. But they knew, and their leader knew, that to return to that moment
of naked fear, evoked by the memory of the perpetrators’ crazed envy and untrammelled
hatred, as it was expressed through brutal mass murder, was not why they had
come to this second concert. To remain in that moment, or to return to it by re-invoking
hatred for the perpetrators, would have meant defeat for them and for all of us.
Instead, their leader, was in this moment urging them to celebrate a eucharist, a shared moment of love and thanksgiving. She was offering them a different
and better way, a way out from fear, so that they would not spend the rest of
their lives emotionally short-circuiting back to the lie which bred the hatred
on the part of the perpetrators. But neither was she exhorting her fans to some
kind of collective mental discipline involving them being seen to enjoy
themselves. She was affirming and releasing the re-creative love which lies
within each one of us. She was inviting her fans to be ‘as one’, or as
communion in spirit and in truth.
To love one another is to worship God in spirit and
in truth. I believe that, whether consciously or not, it was to this end that
she told them to “Touch the person next to you. Tell them you love them – even
if you don’t know them. Those watching this at home, do the same.” It was a
sacramental moment, a hallowing of the ‘matter’, of our shared humanity, in the
face of the sacrilegious acts committed a couple of weeks earlier in the name
of God.
In saying these words, Ariana Grande was helping us
all to face down our fear of terrorism, by being in deeper communion with one
another as a free society. Perhaps she was thinking of the two generations who,
in the last century, fought and died for that freedom. If so, she was also
inviting communion across our generational barriers – all the nonsense we tell
ourselves and others about how much better things were in the good old days. Not
only was the singer telling them that love was very much alive within each one
of them, regardless of the envy of religious extremists, but that we are all,
regardless of age, gender, race, nationality, or politics, deeply at one with
each other and that we are called to worship God, as we love one another, in
spirit and in truth.
